What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 04:14

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
6- Whatâs your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
13- Whatâs your favorite drink? Whatâs your least favorite?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
9- Is there something youâve always wanted to ask me but youâre afraid?
How can I get a girlfriend? I am 26.
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Can you share the entire summary of your spiritual life?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
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Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
If you win, what will you make them do?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
39~ What are your love languages?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Who was the actor least deserving of an Academy Award?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can âPASSâ and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship⌠You can learn a lot about the other person⌠and yourselfâŚ
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
*** Random Questions ***
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
92~ Everyone needs a âsafeâ word. What is yours?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
52~ What are your hobbies?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJâs when you are sleeping?
7- Whatâs your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
65~ Describe the best orgasm youâve ever had? Care to share?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Any that are a turn off?
18- Whatâs your favorite way to relax after a long day? Whatâs your least favorite?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
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46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
18~ Who/when was your first âcrushâ?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Do you prefer your partnerâs pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
16~ Do you believe in âsoulmatesâ? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
14 â Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end⌠:-) some funny, some notâŚ
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
I would allow you to do it⌠What would you do to me?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
14- Do you have a âDeal Breakerâ, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
19- Whatâs your favorite fairytale? Whatâs your least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? Whatâs your least favorite?
3- Whatâs your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
3- What was the most surprising thing youâve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
29- How superstitious are you?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
How many times do you think you have âmade loveâ?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Whatâs the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
17- Whatâs your favorite holiday? Whatâs your least favorite?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Would you read them together?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the momentâŚ
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
If yes, what?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
66~ Whatâs the shortest time itâs ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
85~ If you gave me a âfree Passâ to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
9- Whatâs your favorite season and why? Whatâs your least favorite?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
4- Whatâs your favorite genre of music? Whatâs your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
42~ Whatâs your biggest regret in life?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past⌠it got you two here togetherâŚ
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
19~ Who/when was your first âheartbreakâ?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
20- Whatâs your favorite candy? Whatâs your least favorite?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? Whatâs your least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
40~ Whatâs the weirdest place youâve ever had sex?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3âŚ
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
1- Whatâs your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
52~ Are you willing to make âthose typesâ of bets with your partner?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
1- Whatâs your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couplesâ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETCâŚ)
The Ice Breaker Questions
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) đ
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Do you like the â69â position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
85~ If I gave you a âFree Passâ for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Nothing too Serious
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
14~ When was the first time you said, âI Love Youâ? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
How old are you? Male or Female?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Donât be shy now, I really want to know.
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
2- Whatâs your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
16- Whatâs your favorite vacation you have been on? Whatâs your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
12- Whatâs your favorite food? Whatâs your least favorite?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
5- Whatâs your favorite movie genre? Whatâs your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Any that are a turn off?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
*** Questions About Me ***
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything⌠Shave meâŚ
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
*** Whatâs Your FavoriteâŚ? ***
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
15~ Have you ever been âin loveâ? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Please share Did you stop?